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Embroidered "Here Lies ‘Take a Joke’" Cotton Tote Bag
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“Take a joke” is often used to dodge accountability: someone says something cruel, the other person pushes back, and suddenly they’re the problem for being “too sensitive” or “making a scene.”
A lot of “jokes” are really just insults with an escape hatch. Common doesn’t mean acceptable — and being normalized for years doesn’t mean something shouldn’t be called out.
The Here Lies “Take a Joke” tote adds a little sass to the everyday — lightweight, durable and perfect for shopping, books, errands, chores or gifting to the person in your life who has officially retired from laughing politely. ⚰️
As always, 50% of Votes of Confidence profits are donated to organizations and causes aligned with the messages we put into the world, helping turn conversation into real-world change.
Details:
• 100% cotton
• One size: 15″ × 16.5″ (38 cm × 42 cm)
• Lightweight yet durable for everyday use
• This item is made especially for you through print-on-demand production — meaning it’s created only when you order it. No overstock, no unnecessary waste. It may take a few extra days to arrive, but it’s a more thoughtful, sustainable choice (and those add up to real impact 💚).
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I get my Conversation Guide?
Every order comes with a free guide — our gift to help you build confidence, spark real conversations, and stop replaying comebacks hours later. 💬✨ It’s packed with practical tips, tricks, and self-love boosts. You’ll get it as a link in your order confirmation email.
What does “print on demand” mean?
It means your item is made just for you when you order it — no overstock, no waste. It takes a few extra days, but it’s a more thoughtful, sustainable choice (and those add up to real impact 💚).
Can I return my item if I change my mind?
Since everything’s print-on-demand, we don’t accept returns for buyer’s remorse. 🙅 But! If your order arrives damaged or incorrect, we’ll happily make it right. Just follow the simple steps in your delivery confirmation email, and we’ll sort it. ✔️