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Embroidered "Here Lies Making Excuses for Monsters" Cozy Sweater

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We spend far too much time explaining away abusive, controlling or violent behavior instead of asking the most important question: who was harmed, and what consequences should follow?

Being powerful, popular, successful or male should never lower the standard for accountability. If anything, the more influence someone has, the more seriously we should take the harm they cause.

The Here Lies Making Excuses for Monsters sweater is coziness with purpose — a soft, sturdy sweatshirt for colder days, easy loungewear, and the perfect Halloween outfit for burying the excuses, victim-blaming and double standards that let harmful behavior slide. ⚰️

As always, 50% of Votes of Confidence profits are donated to organizations and causes aligned with the messages we put into the world, helping turn conversation into real-world change.

Details:
• Pre-shrunk
• Classic fit
• Due to the fabric properties, the White color variant may appear off-white rather than bright white.
• Subtle orange hue shifts with lighting in the Orange color variant.
• This item is made especially for you through print-on-demand production — meaning it’s created only when you order it. No overstock, no unnecessary waste. It may take a few extra days to arrive, but it’s a more thoughtful, sustainable choice (and those add up to real impact ?).
Color: Black
Size: S
Regular price $49.99 USD
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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I get my Conversation Guide?

Every order comes with a free guide — our gift to help you build confidence, spark real conversations, and stop replaying comebacks hours later. 💬✨ It’s packed with practical tips, tricks, and self-love boosts. You’ll get it as a link in your order confirmation email.

What does “print on demand” mean?

It means your item is made just for you when you order it — no overstock, no waste. It takes a few extra days, but it’s a more thoughtful, sustainable choice (and those add up to real impact 💚).

Can I return my item if I change my mind?

Since everything’s print-on-demand, we don’t accept returns for buyer’s remorse. 🙅 But! If your order arrives damaged or incorrect, we’ll happily make it right. Just follow the simple steps in your delivery confirmation email, and we’ll sort it. ✔️