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Embroidered "Here Lies Making Excuses for Monsters" Cotton Tote Bag
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We spend far too much time explaining away abusive, controlling or violent behavior instead of asking who was harmed and what accountability should follow. Being powerful, popular, successful or male should never lower that standard.
The Here Lies Making Excuses for Monsters tote is practical with a purpose — lightweight, durable and perfect for errands, books, shopping or gifting to someone who agrees that excuses, victim-blaming and double standards belong firmly in the graveyard. ⚰️
As always, 50% of Votes of Confidence profits are donated to organizations and causes aligned with the messages we put into the world, helping turn conversation into real-world change.
Details:
• 100% cotton
• One size: 15″ × 16.5″ (38 cm × 42 cm)
• Lightweight yet durable for everyday use
• This item is made especially for you through print-on-demand production — meaning it’s created only when you order it. No overstock, no unnecessary waste. It may take a few extra days to arrive, but it’s a more thoughtful, sustainable choice (and those add up to real impact 💚).
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I get my Conversation Guide?
Every order comes with a free guide — our gift to help you build confidence, spark real conversations, and stop replaying comebacks hours later. 💬✨ It’s packed with practical tips, tricks, and self-love boosts. You’ll get it as a link in your order confirmation email.
What does “print on demand” mean?
It means your item is made just for you when you order it — no overstock, no waste. It takes a few extra days, but it’s a more thoughtful, sustainable choice (and those add up to real impact 💚).
Can I return my item if I change my mind?
Since everything’s print-on-demand, we don’t accept returns for buyer’s remorse. 🙅 But! If your order arrives damaged or incorrect, we’ll happily make it right. Just follow the simple steps in your delivery confirmation email, and we’ll sort it. ✔️